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Should the Sloth be our MetaSpiritual Guru?

5 surprisingly profound lessons from one of nature’s

slowest teachers

Let’s get one thing straight right from the beginning: We are not suggesting that you quit your job, move into a tree, and spend the rest of your life eating leaves while hanging upside down.

What we are suggesting is this: a sloth can inspire us to reconsider some of our assumptions about what makes a good life, and rethink how we prioritize our actions. In the process, we will enrich our spiritual practice and find ourselves moving through this skin-school experience called life with a much higher vibration of joy and inner peace!

Consider: What if the sloth isn't actually lazy? 

What if the sloth is simply living according to a completely different operating system?

In a world that celebrates speed, productivity, multitasking, optimization, achievement and being perpetually “on the go,” the sloth seems almost revolutionary.

It doesn't hurry. It doesn't appear particularly interested in climbing the ladder (just the right tree)!

It doesn't seem concerned with maximizing every available minute.

It certainly isn't checking email or doom-scrolling social media while eating breakfast.

The sloth simply moves through the world at its own pace, conserving its energy, inhabiting its environment and apparently having very little interest in our collective obsession with getting somewhere faster. And that is exactly why the sloth deserves a place in our MetaSpiritual Hall of Fame.

Because MetaSpirituality invites us to look beyond conventional boxes and discover the deeper wisdom that can be found in everyday life, nature, experience and even things we might normally overlook.

So perhaps our furry, slow-moving friend has a few lessons worth sharing.

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Lesson #1: Slow Down Enough to Notice Your Life

Sloths don't exactly sprint through their days. Their pace invites us to remember that presence requires time.

We recently celebrated our 49th wedding anniversary! (Yep! 49 fabulous, love-filled years -- anticipating many, many more!) As we reflected on how quickly the time had passed, we realized the most memorable, magical times happened when we slowed down and made time to enjoy the present moment. 

Spiritual Connection: When we slow our outer pace, we often become more aware of our inner world. Maybe “lazy” isn't always lazy. Sometimes it's simply being present enough to notice what we've been rushing past.

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We’ve actually created a new mantra:

The Present Moment is my time zone! Choice is my currency!


Lesson #2: Rest Is Part of the Rhythm: Find Your Own Natural Pace!

The sloth reminds us that even the universe seems to have a “Do Not Disturb” setting. Nature doesn't operate at one constant speed. There are seasons of growth and seasons of dormancy. There are times to bloom, times to release, times to gather energy, and times to create and renew.

Why should we imagine that human beings are somehow exempt from this rhythm? In fact, science has actually confirmed what our friend the sloth already knows: Daily and annual life rhythms are biological patterns driven by Earth's rotation and orbit. These cycles—called circadian, ultradian, and circannual rhythms—help plants, animals, and humans sleep, hunt, breed, and migrate at the right times for survival.

Circadian rhythms are roughly 24-hour cycles that help regulate sleep, wakefulness, hormones, body temperature and other biological functions. And within those larger daily cycles are ultradian rhythms, shorter cycles that move us between periods of activity and restoration throughout the day. According to the science, we should take a 15-30 minute break (and do something totally different from what we've been doing) every 90-120 minutes throughout the day. That means step away from your work task, rest your eyes, move, go outside, grab a glass of water, etc.  A circannual rhythm is an internal biological cycle that lasts for approximately one year, and impacts human changes in mood, sleep, andimmunity. The circannual rhythms also trigger seasonal behaviors like animal hibernation, plant flowering, migration, and even antler growth.

In other words, our biology isn't designed to run at full throttle 24/7. We are rhythmic beings. Perhaps the wisdom isn't in resisting those rhythms, but in learning to listen to them.

 

Spiritual Connection: Rest isn't necessarily the opposite of growth. Rest can be one of the conditions that makes growth possible.

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Lesson #3: You Don't Have to Hurry to Be Moving Forward

The sloth does move. Just not particularly quickly. And therein lies a lesson.

We sometimes mistake speed for progress. But moving quickly and moving meaningfully are not the same thing. Wow! That's a really powerful a-ha! It's like confusing activity for accomplishment!

When we left the corporate world to create our own business, we felt overwhelmed by all the things we needed to do! And it seemed like everyone had advice for us on how to do it! We worked at such a feverish pitch that we finally wore ourselves out! We looked at each other and said: This is NOT what we left our corporate jobs to do ... and this is NOT how we want to be! 

We gave ourselves a two-week sabbatical to reflect, plan, and brainstorm. No commitments -- no marketing calls -- no demands or 'have-tos' -- no To-Do lists. Just joyful planning, dreaming, and questioning unquestioned answers! That slowed down pace was like a infusion of energy! As a result, we restructured everything -- and our business soared to higher levels of success than we could have imagined! It was a WOW moment we have never forgotten! It led us to create our life-work mantra: First, determine your lifestyle. Then wrap your work around it!

Spiritual Connection: Your journey is still a journey when you're taking the scenic route. Progress doesn't have to be dramatic to be real. Sometimes one small step, thoughtfully taken, is more meaningful than ten frantic ones.

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Lesson #4: Conserve Your Energy

The sloth is remarkably economical with its energy. It doesn't burn fuel simply to look busy.

We recall how it used to be a badge of success to have a full calendar -- and bragging rights went to those professionals who never took time off. They were sooooo successful! Until they weren't! We quickly learned how important it is to take care of ourselves, and value our time! Not every invitation deserved a YES! 

Spiritual Connection: Not everything deserves our energy! What if we changed the question from “What should I fill my day with today?” to “What is truly worthy of my energy today?”

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Lesson #5: Doing Nothing Can Create Space for Something

When every moment is occupied, there is very little room for intuition, imagination, reflection or simply being.

Imagine intentionally creating a little space in your day where nothing needs to happen. No productivity goal. No achievement.  No task. No scrolling. No “catching up.” Just...nothing.

At first, that can feel surprisingly uncomfortable. We have become so accustomed to filling every available space that empty space can feel almost suspicious. But emptiness isn't necessarily a void. Sometimes it's an invitation.

In our retreats and Spiritual Gatherings, we hear over and over how difficult it is for folks to meditate. We believe one of the reasons is because they have this unrealistic idea that meditation is about controlling the mind, and being still. They enter into it with so many "have to's" and expectations -- and of course they experience stress doing the very thing that is supposed to ease their stress! 

Imagine their surprise when we say, don't meditate right now! Just take 5 minutes to sit -- or walk -- without any reason. See what comes up for you. The results are often life-changing! People realize that when we stop filling every moment with activity, expectations, and goals, something unexpected can emerge:

  • A new idea.
  • A realization.
  • A creative impulse.
  • A feeling we've been avoiding.
  • A deeper awareness of what we actually want.
  • Or perhaps simply the profound realization that we don't have to be doing something every second to justify our existence.

Give it a try -- The sloth would probably approve.

Spiritual Connection: Emptiness isn't necessarily a void. Sometimes it's an invitation. What might arise if you gave yourself 20 minutes today with nothing to accomplish?

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But Wait ... There's More!

Bonus Lesson from our Sloth Guru:

Being fully yourself is its own kind of wisdom!

The sloth doesn't apologize for being a sloth.

It isn't comparing itself to squirrels. It isn't taking a webinar called “How to Become a More Efficient Sloth.” It simply inhabits its nature.

Spiritual Connection: Our Sloth Guru is issuing an invitation to stop measuring ourselves against somebody else and reconnect with the Truth of who we are!

A Special Spiritual Practice, From Our Incredible Sloth Guru!

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We're Revs. Drs. Bil & Cher Holton -- and prefer you just call us Bil and Cher! Our passion is creating a safe space where folks who choose to be more spiritual than religious can come together to search, share, question, and grow! We combine a flair for the dramatic, a deep understanding of MetaSpiritual teachings, an ability to think outside the box, and a knack for bringing scientific research and spiritual practices to life in practical ways! Combining Evidence-based Science, Faith-based Spirituality, Metaphor-based Metaphysics, and Experience-based Psychic Phenomena is at the heart of GCSAcommunity.org

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